Of all “The Sista’s” aunt Patsy had one of the most important as well as most needed qualities- her ability to laugh and smile. That is something I will never forget. When I think about my grandmother and my aunts there are certain things that immediately come to mind and Aunt Patsy’s ability to laugh and see the humor in even the worst situations is something to treasure as well as something that’s hard to come by and something I will always treasure. I can’t picture aunt Patsy without a smile. While I’m sure there were times, I struggle to recall a single occasion where she was ever truly angry. I never heard her cuss anyone- which is a feat in itself, and I never saw her without a smile. Aunt Patsy worked harder and more tirelessly than anyone I’ve known and without complaint. To be able to get past the struggles she encountered and deal with the hardships put on her plate while not only always carrying her head up high but carrying it with a smile- whether it was the passing of her beloved husband and my beloved uncle Keith or chemotherapy on her lunch breaks truly shows what a strong, devoted, selfless, and loving person she was. Aunt Patsy is and rightfully should be a role model to anyone who knew her or even crossed her path. She exemplified hard work, love, and compassion. She exuded happiness and devotion. All of these things on her own accord. There are not many people like aunt Patsy left out there in this world today. I am truly grateful to have been able to not only encounter someone of her stature but experience her love. Even while laying in a hospital bed sick she brought up and talked to me about my health issues. The void she is leaving is one that can’t be filled. I will always love and truly miss aunt Patsy, but I will also always cherish the memories and examples she left me. I love you aunt Patsy, I always will.
